this brings to mind a thread i came across recently .. here
men and women seek the thrill and excitment of "bad" women/men
.. but ultimately when they marry, they want a very guai partner
..
hey, come to think of it.. i vaguely recall this in my
psychology course!! there were even experiments .. men are more
prone to this.. they want to date hot, sexy women but when they
marry, they want a women who's not so hot and sexy..
Recently, there's this TV series here based on a real life
gangland war that happened right in Melbourne. The infamous
Moran family, a mafia family with drug dealings and what not, who
had the patriarch and all the sons gunned down by a violent
gangster, and the eccentric matriarch is the sole
survivor.
The wives of the two gangster brothers are very
housewifey. One looked kinda plump and dowdy, the other a
little bit better groomed but still housewifey. They both had
affairs with sizzling hot, sexy chicks forever clad in lingerie and
stilleto's. 
There was a hot episode where one of
the brothers had a notti girl in black lingerie parade in front of
him, biting her finger, looking coyly at him whispering, "I've been
a baaaad girl today... I broke my mama's favourite china!"
So he said cooly... " You need to be spanked!"
And then next scene, the kids creating mayhem at home and his
wife screaming at him to take out the trash!
